Remember anytime you lust after anyone……on tv, in a book, in person- you are doing the wrong thing.

You can go on to live like this and get caught up in Satans filfty life or you can Fix it, as you turn to God and call out the name of Christ.

Most people whom get mixed up in this , has been raised with little or no morals/values (non-christian home) , Some men feel they need to look upon women in this way. Than they lust, and gloat over women as such….saying nasty things and acting as if women are notthing ,less they show skin.

Those whom have this problem – let me make it perfectly clear –YOU HAVE A DEMON. This demon will leave if you want it to and you call out the name of the Lord.

These last days…we are living in a very perverse world, but God is always there to save all those who reach out to him.

First – Call on the Lord.

Second- rid of every filfty thing in your house that has made you turn to this sin.

Third- Praise the Lord , find a house of God/Church that can help you… and you will be saved.

Oh ,you may have struggles , everyone doses, but in the name of Jesus – you will be turned around .

"Don’t live by the flesh". Seek God.

Study: Love, Passion and Lust:

It has come upon me to study and write on these things.

God specks about Lust in the bible ...

"But I say to you, that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart."

Matt. 5:27

Now, lets look at what Lust is:

Lust= A intense or unbridled sexual desire.

Note Unbridled means- unrestrained.

Unrestrained would mean- out of control, given into.

So, than Lust would mean- having a longing that is out of control and not right.

So, than - we should lust for noone or notthing. Because Lust is a-out of control desire.

I think this leaves some people thinking- desire and passion is wrong, this is not wrong, and it is very apparent in the bible, as below, desire and passion is awesome with the one you love.

I believe desire and passion is stronger than lust, a desire is kept in control, cause it is flamed by someone you love.

You can lust for anything you see that looks good.

But Desire and Passion is a much stronger feeling that can only come from loveing something/someone, I have found.

You have to desire someone before you want to marry them, and you have to have passion for someone before you have a great sexual experience with them (spouses).

The dictionary saids this about

Song of solomon writes his longings down for his love, which are very sensual....

Song of solomon 7

"The curves of your thighs are like jewels, The work of the hands of a skillful workman."

This study has come to be, because one day I was speaking of a desire and passion for my husband,,, and a lady said- ' your thinking of only sex.'

I was speechless. Only Sex? I thought. In marriage - it is never 'ONLy Sex". There is (or should be) always a love, desire for that person.'

In Marriage, you should have love, sex, passion, desire, and a longing for each other, a controled longing out of respect for one another.

Self control would be showing our love  to our mate at the right time and place.

If you do not have this in you marriage (desire and passion), your missing out and your marriage is suffering... do something about it.

I have always been a Passionate,loving person, and so, when I entered a relationship, it was not hard for me to be passionate about that person.

Be careful of Adultery.

Adultery =  Sex or lust outside of marriage when married to someone else .

Sexual sin= any sexual act or act of lust for someone outside of marriage.

Both are sins God warns us many times - to stay away from, and to stay away from people whom confess they are christian, but yet indulge in sexual sin.

I suggest by what the bible tells us, is- we live with a passion for life, not a lust for life.

Be aware-

Lust usually comes from anything that looks good, and can be very dangerous.

A Passion comes from loving and longing, and a desire for that something you love, which is a great way to live, and a definate need in a Marriage.

And don't let the world fool you.... Marriage is a Wonderful Union- Satan trys to make it something odd and aweful.  But if you allow God to rule your marriage- it will be what it should be- you will marry someone you love, desire in every way, shape and form. That even when problems arise- you can get through.   It is the only time we are to have sexual experiences and we are blessed to have it anytime we want with that person we love, it is having a friend there for all your life, and to have someone to share all things forever.

The dictionary saids :

Christian marriages;

Matt 19 "For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh."

Eph. 5:28

So, lets live with a passion and desire in living Gods way, and be loving.